After Awhile

Beautifully written and expressed by Veronica A. Shoffstall

After a while you learn the subtle difference between
holding a hand and chaining a soul

You learn that love doesn't mean leaning
and company doesn't always mean security.

You begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts
and presents aren't promises

You begin to accept your defeats
with your head up and your eyes ahead with the grace of woman,
not the grief of a child

You learn to build all your roads on today
because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans
and futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight.

After a while you learn
that even sunshine burns if you get too much

So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul
instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.

And you learn that you really can endure
you really are strong
you really do have worth

And you learn

You learn
with every goodbye, you learn...